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Riding·April 2025

Learning to sit a canter without apologising.

The hardest part of starting late is the patience — your body knows you're behind, and you can't outwork that with hours alone.

The hardest part of starting late is the patience. Your body knows it's behind, and you can't outwork that with hours alone.

My trainer says it like a chorus: shoulders back, hips loose, don't apologise. The apology is a small forward tilt — the body asking the horse for permission to be there. The horse, predictably, accepts the apology and ignores the rider.

It took six months to ride a canter circle without flinching. It will probably take six more before it looks like nothing.